You have a feeling that he is cheating and you want to find out the truth. The problem is you don’t know how to spy on a cheating spouse. You wonder if you will get caught if you follow him or if there is a way to find out some information in a harmless manner.

Actually, there are numerous ways for you to go about snooping and spying on a cheater. The decision you need to make is how serious or deep you want to get in finding out the truth. Below are some methods you can use to get some form of information on what is going on behind your back:

1. Tailing. This is as blatant as you can get in tracking down the movements of your spouse or partner. It entails high risk because you can get discovered when following him around, so you do need to learn a few techniques before trying this out. But it is also one of the most effective ways to know where the cheater has been, who he has seen and what he has done.

2. Planting tracking devices. If tailing your spouse is not your cup tea, then you can try using GPS technology to track his whereabouts. If you know exactly where he has been, you will immediately be able to spot a lie when he comes home and tell you where he has gone during those hours in question.

3. Installing computer monitoring software. This is one way to find out all the emails and chat messages that your spouse or partner has received and sent. You can also track websites that he has visited. You can monitor all these remotely from another computer at another location too. While this method is very effective in discovering everything you need to know, it is also a very intrusive act that gives you access to his private emails and websites accounts.

4. Installing cell phone monitoring software. Just like the above, instead of monitoring your spouse’s computer usage, you are now spying on his cell phone usage. Through this method, you can know all his incoming and outgoing calls, their numbers, text messages and address book.

5. Snooping. Go through through your spouse’s or partner’s belongings like briefcase, drawers, wallet, cell phone or any other places where you think you might be able to find something that point to an affair. Items like photo, card, hotel receipt and phone statement may be able to tell a tale. But snoop only when it is safe to do so. Otherwise, you will have a lot explaining to do on what exactly you are after going through his things.

6. Checking out his alibis. If your spouse says he had drinks with so-and-so at a certain time, try to find out if he is telling the truth or otherwise. However, bear in mind that a cheater’s friend can warn him that you are checking out on him. Therefore, try to go a round-about way to get the information that you want. Use a friend or cook up a story that will lead the person to give you the info you seek in an indirect way without raising suspicions.

7. Installing a spy camera. This would work if you suspect that your spouse or partner is bringing someone home when you are away. There are many spy cameras available now in the form of common household items like clock, radio and tissue box that you can easily find out who has been visiting when you are not around.

8. Checking out his car. A car can reveal a lot if you know what to look for. The odometer can reveal how far he has traveled, the passenger seat may have been moved to signify he may have driven someone, the door and trash compartments can hide receipts, a scent may linger, and the radio may be on an unfamiliar channel. Basically, you are looking for evidence that there is someone else in the car with him when there shouldn’t be.

The above are just some methods on how to spy on a cheating spouse. Of course, there are many more ways you can spy on your spouse, depending on your situation. If you carefully assess how, when, where and with whom your spouse may be having an affair with, you may well be able to think of a few other ways to start your spying activity.