If you are wondering why your spouse is accusing you of cheating when you have not done anything that warrants such an accusation, then perhaps, you should be looking closer at what your spouse is doing behind your back instead. There are a few reasons why a cheater will resort to such an accusation, which can certainly leave you shocked and unsure of how to react.

Firstly, accusing you of cheating deflects the attention from himself. This tactic can be useful when your spouse detects that you are beginning to get suspicious of his activities. Rather than waiting for you to find out the truth, he turns around and starts making all sorts of accusations instead. That way, you become the center of attention. With his accusation and without proof on your hands, it then degenerates into a finger-pointing game with both you saying the other is a cheater.

Secondly, when your spouse accuses you of cheating, he may already have plans in his mind to leave. Because he finds it difficult to tell you the truth or he just doesn’t want to explain for whatever reason, he concocts up a valid excuse to walk out the door. This way, he would not have to justify his leaving to you. Because you “cheated”, he can simply leave without having to say another word.

Lastly, this accusation automatically provides an excuse for your spouse to continue on with his affair. The rationale behind it is that because you “cheated”, so can I. Because he wants to carry on with the affair and he knows that you will find out sooner or later, he creates a situation that allows him to by making his affair justifiable since you too is “having an affair”.

Therefore, always probe deeper if your spouse accuses you of cheating when there is hardly any reason to. Such an accusation can be a sign of cheating on your spouse’s part and often, it is a strategy that has been planned and seriously thought out.

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